7 habits of highly effective teens

                             Habit 4

4. Think win-win

Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishment of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-win is a belief that everyone can win. Its both nice and thought all at once. I wont step on you, but I wont be your doormat either. You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well. Win-win is abundant. It is the belief that theres plenty of success to go around. Its bot either you or me. Its both of us. Its not matter of who gets the biggest pice of the pie. Theres more than enough food for you everyone. Its and all-you-can-eat buffet.

Win-win always create more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking win-win is the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking win-win or one of the alternative its how you feel. Win-lose and lose-win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.

Win-win will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think win-win or no deal.

              CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!